[I just want to let you guys know that there was a lot of emotion going on in Vietnam and Cambodia, but it is too hard to put that into words. So in the blog, I am telling you simply what I did, which I think is still amazing. When I get home I will be more than willing to talk about anything and everything.]
I woke up early Monday, April 9th because I knew that someone special was going to be waiting for me… my mom! I had been so excited knowing that she was coming and I cannot even imagine how excited she was at home, preparing for her vacation. As we pulled into port, there was also a group of about 10-15 Vietnamese women holding a huge sign that said Welcome Semester at Sea to Vietnam. They were dressed in their traditional outfits with the hats and everything. It was beautiful. Aside from that, the SAS parents were there. They were waving frantically, looking for their children who were most likely hanging off the side of the ship somewhere. My mom, along with 3 other moms who were traveling solo, had a huge sign on a sheet with each of their child’s name on it; Jeff, Logan, Kalyn and Jordi. It was so cute. I was standing with Jeff as we pulled up and we were both able to spot our moms. After what seemed like an eternity of waiting, the parents were finally let on. I found my mom in the dining hall where I introduced her to all of my friends who had also been very excited to meet her. I had previously bought tickets for us to go see a Cambodian orphanage out on a traditional dance show, the performance was right on the ship. So we headed to the Union to watch the show. It was wonderful. They are so graceful and are able to move so well and the costumes were beautiful. After the show we had lunch in the dining hall. We took our time and caught up on things. Then I took her on a tour of the ship and then to my room. She could not get over how beautiful the ship was. It was so weird being with my mom on the ship. At school, your parents generally know where you live and they also know your friends and roommates and stuff. We have talked about that before on the ship, how it is weird that we don’t know each other’s family and stuff. So it was really cool that she was able to see it and meet everyone.
By the time we were ready to leave, everyone had already left the ship, so it was just going to be my mom and me for the day, which was completely fine. Although she was not thrilled about shopping because of the heat, she knew I had to at least do a little shopping. Apparently the thing to do in Vietnam is get a dress made. So I had cut pictures out of magazines and our first stop was a tailor. I got measured and described exactly what I wanted to the seamstress. I would be back to pick it up in a few days. We did a little more shopping for souvenir type things before heading back to the ship. I had gone back with the purpose to find Dannie, and guess who I found while waiting in line to get back on the ship!? It was perfect. The three of us went out to a nice seafood buffet at my mom’s hotel. Yes, seafood, but they did have other things too. It was probably the best, and definitely the most expensive, meal Dannie and I had had in a long time. We stuffed ourselves so much that we were not able to go back to the ship, so we slept at the hotel with my mom. The hotel was amazing. Definitely nicer than anywhere I have stayed on this trip. The bed and the comforter were great and I definitely got a good night sleep.
We all woke up early the next morning to go back to the ship since mom’s heat rash was horrible. I wanted to take her to the on ship doctor to see if there was anything he could give her to make her more comfortable since we were going to be doing a lot of walking the next few days. He gave her some type of steroid, which obviously would not kick in right away. I am glad I took her though so that she could be diagnosed. We had breakfast on the ship and then she headed back to the hotel to get ready to leave for Cambodia. She had to leave from the hotel and I had to leave from the ship, which was fine since I was still not packed.
I got myself ready and met up with my group in the Union at 9:00am. We headed to the airport, and did all that good stuff before meeting back up with the parents. Mom and me were not sitting together, but it was only a 50-minute flight so it was not that big of a deal. We got to Phnom Penh around 1:30 in the afternoon and went right to the hotel. We had a tiny break before visiting the silver pagoda and the royal palace. Those two places were beautiful. We had been warned before leaving that Cambodia had a lot of amputees. This was very apparent from the beggars outside these touristy places. There were people in wheelchairs, people with no limbs or limbs missing, people with completely burned faces; it was horrifying, yet I was unable to look away. Being with my mom was amazing. I have not done a lot of traveling with her and just being able to see her reaction to things made it even more amazing. We got to experience something knew together and I would not have traded it for the world.
Our next adventure was a sunset river cruise on the Mekong. It was incredible. I know I keep using the same adjectives but it is really hard to put what I saw into words. It had been getting harder and harder throughout this voyage and now it is nearly impossible. Pictures do speak a thousand words and you will see what I mean when you see my pictures, but I cannot post all of them. And even pictures cant completely convey what I saw, what I saw with my mom. So I know that it is cheesy but it is the truth. People live on boats the size of canoes, they build themselves a small roof for protection from the earthly elements. They wash themselves and their clothes in the river. Can you even imagine!? There were communities of these boats and then the occasional outlier; maybe an outcast. It was amazing to see these people conducting their everyday lives right there on the river.
What was really ironic was that after seeing that, we headed to dinner; an endless buffet of anything you could ever imagine. Table after table of sushi, stir fry, pho, anything and everything. After seeing such poverty we were taken in out air-conditioned luxury bus to a fancy dinner. It just seems kind of weird, right. After dinner we headed back to the hotel and everyone was pooped. I was asleep in seconds.
The next morning, breakfast was served from 6:00 to 7:00, so of course I slept right through it. I was downstairs at 7:00 though ready to leave for the day along with everyone else. Today was the day dedicated to the genocide. I was disappointed in myself for not knowing more about it. I have found myself not knowing a lot of things that I wish I knew. I somewhat plane the education system, but I also do blame myself. When I get home I want to do a lot of catch up learning on the history of the world. Someone said something that really touched me and I would like to make it a reality for myself too; I would like to be able to have an intelligent conversation about each of the countries that I have been to. This includes history, economics, politics, etc. It is going to be hard but I am going to try.
Normally when you go to a museum, there is information around so that even if you know nothing going in, you feel like you have learned something on your way out. Unfortunately, I was unable to say that about the Toul Sleng Museum. I know that it was a school that was turned into cells where people were imprisoned and exterminated. On the wire bed there were still the boxes for excrement and tools that were clearly used for torture. There was tree where people were hung to make an example for the others not to misbehave. It was fascinating, but I left with most of the same questions that I came with, and more.
Our next stop was the killing fields. Again, I did not know much, and I still don’t know as much as I want to know. I know what I can gather from the name; it was the spot of mass execution. There were graves dug and labeled ‘the grave of 60 beheaded men.’ There was a display case of thousands of skulls of all sizes. As disturbing as it was, it was so shocking that I just could not tear myself away. One sign said ‘86 mass graves, 8985 victims.’ That is a lot of victims in one grave, and a lot of innocent people to be killed. There was a ‘killing tree against which executioners beat children’ and a ‘mass grave of more than 100 victims children and women whose majority were naked.’ Although these served as ‘headstones’ for the most part, I felt that they were even more degrading than if there being nothing at all. There were bones sticking out of the ground or showing through the dirt. There were piles of bones laying around, proving that this really and truly was not that long ago. Horrifying.
Now, to drastically change the subject, our next stop was the Russian market. We only had an hour there, and everyone knows an hour is not enough time in a gigantic market place. There was so much that I wanted to buy and so many different stands. I could have spent an entire day there. But no, instead we headed to lunch. Being a vegetarian on this trip, I was put in a separate room at lunch with the other veggies and my mom was unable to join me. The food was ok. At lunch, a group of us decided to stray from the tour group and head on our own to an orphanage that is sponsored by the therapist on our ship and her husband. We figured we could miss the National Museum to go, and we definitely made the right decision.
We took a taxi to the Palm Tree Orphanage. Upon our arrival, we were greeted by all the children and hugged and held. It was amazing. The smiles on the children’s faces were beautiful and you could tell how genuinely happy they were to have visitor. Marvel and Terry, the therapist and her husband, had taken a group of older children to the beach for the day, and no we were there to spend time with the younger children. We could have spent all day, but we only had 2 hours. The little ones held our hand while the older ones spoke in English and gave us a tour. They sleep on the floor. They wear any clothes that they can. They take dance class every morning and have school 5 days a week. They love it there. The facility was beautiful and Marvel and Terry are paying to improve it by adding a pool and redoing the bathrooms. There was a huge terrace for them to play outside. But then it hits you; the reason that these children are there. They have no parents. Some were sent there, some were found, and others, we have no idea. The fact that there are so many children in need is horrifying. And I want to help.
I fell in love with a little girl, around 5 years old, whose name was Titli. She is beautiful. Being in that orphanage with a dedication to education, they want the children to stay. They are not up for adoption. Besides the fact that there is a ban right now on Americans adopting from Cambodia…
Our flight to Siem Reap, home of Angkor Wat, was at 4:00, so the deal was that if we missed the flight, we were on our own. We got there before the rest of the group though, and before my mom. She was happy I made it. We landed 40 minutes later and instead of heading to the hotel, we went right to Angkor Wat to watch the sunset. It was amazing and I can definitely see why it is one of the Seven Wonders of the World.
Side note: what the hell are the Seven Wonders of the World. I looked it up on wikipedia, which is a free site, and it told me that they keep changing. So, my seven definitely include the Taj, Angkor Wat, and the Great Wall, no matter what other people say…
So, my mom and me watched the sunset at Angkor Wat, together. Crazy, right?! Then we went to dinner where there was also a show. It was another buffet with more food than imaginable, and the dancing was the same as the Cambodian orphanage we saw on the first day, but performed by older people. It really is beautiful and I would love to dance like they do, but at 20 years old I think it is a lost cause. After that, we finally went back to the hotel. It was such a long day and I was ready to go to sleep. But, there is this bar called Angkor What? that Sasers traditionally go to and sign their name and stuff. A bunch of people left dinner early to go there, so by the time I was ready to go out, it was me and four other people; Ashley, Amanda, Maddie and Cole.
There were tons of SASers there, like any other touristy place we go. I was tired so I watched other people dance and had a drink; a mixed drink with juice, which I would later find out, did not agree with me. We headed back after a while, and we were definitely the first to go. Other SASers stayed out a lot later. All I wanted to do was sign my name, so I was ready after that.
The next morning was an optional sunrise tour of Angkor Wat. Mom and I were there bright an early. It was cloudy so it was not all it was cracked up to be. We went back, had some breakfast, and mom and I decided to take it easy and skip the walking tour of Angkor Wat right after breakfast. We needed the rest since the days were jam-packed. What I did not know was that we were not going back. So, after lunch, Jackie, who did the same thing we did, and I left the tour group and headed to Angkor Wat on our own. I am so glad we did. It was amazing; we climbed those stairs you always see that go straight up, we took amazing pictures and had a lot of fun. We did it quickly though so that we could get back to the tour bus and go to the airport together with our parents (her dad was there). We met up with them at Angkor Thom, which is also the location of Bayon, Baphuon, Elephant Terrace and Leper King Terrace, and then went to the airport to fly back to Cambodia.
I don’t know how to explain the feeling that I had while in Cambodia, but I know for sure that it is somewhere that I want to go back to at some point in my life. I would love to work at an orphanage and if I have the money, I would love to sponsor an orphanage. Being there was amazing and I hope that someday everyone has the opportunity to experience it.
We flew back, on the same flight with another SAS group. Meaning, that with my 60-person group and their 60-person group, the line to get on the ship would be 120-people long, and everyone had a big bag. So, I had previously told Brenna that I would be back and we would go out to dinner, but since it would take hours to get back on the ship, I figured I would go to the hotel for an hour and then back to the ship. What I did not anticipate was that I would fall asleep for the night.
The next morning I woke up and went back to the ship to see if Brenna was there so that we could go out together, but she was on a SAS trip. [I went back to the ship on my own in a taxi, but then on the way back to the hotel I decided to test out the moped taxis. It was so much fun on the back of a moped and it got me there so much quicker. A lot of people ended up getting exhaust burns but I was fine.] So mom and me took it easy. We went out to an amazing lunch where I got hummus as an appetizer and then chicken fajitas. Yes, very Vietnamese I know. We got massages and pedicures and manicures and just had a really nice mom and daughter day. We walked around the city a little, did a tiny bit more shopping and then went out for a nice dinner. We also picked up my dress that needed a little altering, and unfortunately, I was not thrilled with it. Oh well.
The parents were only allowed to be on the ship until 8:00pm, although on ship time was not until 9:00 and the ship was not actually leaving until 9:00am. We bitched about it to the dean but they did nothing. I was pissed that my mom and I were going to be less than a mile apart in Vietnam for so many hours, unable to see each other. We said our goodbyes at the ship, but her bus was leaving and it was too rushed for me to be sad. So that was it. It was over in the blink of an eye and like the rest of this trip, it felt like a dream. It was amazing having her here.
I know I don’t mention mom a lot because I just wanted to get the gist of things written out before we arrive in Japan in 36 hours. But she was with me almost the entire time and we had an amazing time together. I love her so much and I never could have asked for a better mother. I loved experiencing this with her and I cant wait to get home and reflect on the rip with her. I met a ton of new people on the Cambodia trip, people from the ship that I didn’t know and people’s family members and loved ones. I spent time with one girl’s sisters who were incredibly nice and made me miss my sister so much. I knew I missed her, but being with other people’s sisters made me miss her that much more. I know that we will have more experiences together to come. I love you!

The Vietnamese women welcoming our ship to Veitnam!
This was when I first spotted mom! She is waving on the left with the huge sign beneath her.
Me and Titli, the girl I fell in love with at the Pal Tree Orphanage.
Me and mom at the airport.
Me, Cole, Maddie, Ashley and Amanda on our way to Angkor What?!
I signed the bench at Angkor What?!
Me and mom on the balcony of our hotel room in Cambodia.
If you look closely, I am wearing a blue shirt. I was half way up at Angkor Wat.
Me and mom out to dinner in Vietnam.
I am wearing the dress I had made; not what I expected but I like it.